Lauren Gardner, MA, EdS, LPCA

Frequently Asked Questions

What do all those letters after your name stand for?

Lots of people wonder about this, but not many actually ask. 

M.A. stands for Master of Arts.  Mine is in Psychology. 

Ed.S. stands for Educational Specialist, and that is a degree that I earned after my master’s. This is is a level of education that is beyond what is required to practice as a counselor.

LPCA is Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, which is the type of professional license I hold.

Why should I pick you as my therapist? 

Many would say the type of therapy that I practice is old-fashioned. I don’t think that’s necessarily the case, but I was trained in a traditional way. Counselors today are trained to think of counseling as a set of skills which are “used” on a client. I prefer to genuinely get to know my clients and to respond to them in a personal way, tailoring treatment to their unique needs.  My philosophy is that “fast-food therapy” has some hidden costs, so I practice a more client-centered, thoughtful type of therapy. 

Doesn’t “slow” therapy mean a lot of sessions?  I don’t want to see a therapist forever. 

With each client, I constantly aspire to work myself out of a job.  I consider that our work has gone well when a client has made some changes, and does not need me anymore.  I call this process “slow” because therapy is rarely (if ever) a quick fix.  It has some ups and downs.  That doesn’t necessarily mean you need to be in therapy for years, or have a whole lot of sessions.  But it does mean that effective psychotherapy is about getting to the root of problems, and sometimes the issues aren’t what they at first seemed to be.  It can take a while to get to that level of trust.  Furthermore, I’ve consistently found it to be true that this kind of lasting, deep work is where real change happens. 

Why don’t you use CBT (cognitive-behavioral therapy)? 

Many therapists practice CBT, claiming that it is the most effective treatment.  A recent, major study of CBT shows that it has become half as effective as it once was. Popular media source Actual study   Also, the foundational studies in of psychotherapy research have not found that any particular approach to therapy is consistently better than others.  However, longer-term therapy, even if there are long breaks in between sessions, shows benefits that continue to increase even after therapy is done.  (For more information, please take a look at the work of Jonathan Shedler .)

Does this “slow therapy” actually work? 

Slow therapy is often called “intermittent long-term psychodynamic psychotherapy.” This does not mean that people stay in therapy for decades, but that they stay long enough to feel that their therapist is able to know them quite well. Research has shown that this type of therapy has many advantages over CBT and solution-focused approaches. 

As an example, consider fast food.  You can eat a hamburger and fries and feel full immediately, as compared cooking a healthy meal at home. You may lose your hunger more quickly with the burger and fries, but over the long term, your health is not improved. Therapy with me is like that home-cooked meal.

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